Who Are We?

Meet Chris

Life Story 🥱

I was born into a lower income working class family. I was estranged from my biological father and my sister. I grew up in a cold 1-bedroom flat, did poorly at school due to undiagnosed dyspraxia (and possible ADHD, to be confirmed!). In spite of my consistently bad grades at school, I applied to go to university. I applied to 4 universities to do philosophy. I was rejected by all 4 of them. What followed was a gap year when I achieved nothing in my life until October rolled around again. This time I applied to 5 universities for 5 different subjects. I figured if any of them would accept me, then I would study whatever was available to me. Thankfully, I was accepted by Keele to do philosophy on the condition I complete the foundation year. And the rest is history! Throughout my life, I have dealt with a number of mental health struggles. At 11-12, I was diagnosed with anxiety and OCD. For which I was given citalopram on and off for about a decade, later switching to sertraline, which I still take to this day.

That all sounds very sad… and it was! But that didn’t stop me from moving forward and trying to better myself and become comfortable with who I am. At 24 I started to realise I was bisexual, but didn’t fully come out until the age of 25. Thankfully, by that point I already had a network of very accepting friends, many of whom were gay themselves.

Why am I putting all of this deeply personal and sad stuff on my website for my counselling practice? Well, in my private life, I often don’t talk much about it because I like to keep it close to my chest and only open up to those I am close with and trust. But I try to live by what I believe in. and I believe it’s OK to not be OK. Lots of people find it hard to go to counselling, because counselling is hard! Iv been to counselling many times and it’s always difficult. But It’s always usually been very rewarding. And I wouldn’t expect my own clients to open up to me if I can’t admit that I too have been on the other side of the conversation and that I too have dealt with trouble and strife in my life.

So that’s my life story! There’s obviously been a lot of happy moments too, like when I met my estranged sister for the first time, when I got my black belt in Karate, doing an amateur short film for fun and playing dark souls till the sun comes up with my friend and a big bag of Starbursts™️. So, it’s not been all bad! I just wanted to use the space to let people know that iv been through difficulties and that’s one of the reasons I really want to give back and help others using the knowledge I have acquired from my lived experiences and from my education in philosophy.